Appreciation


Recently, the Founder of Healthy Planet has been asked by more and more people to increase the level of my online activity (i.e. Facebook, blogging, etc) so our fans and followers can learn more about who we are; our values and activities.  I am gradually winning him over and I am hoping this is the first of regular messages – it’s a little bit deep, but like most Healthy Planet ideas, it’s easy for anyone who wants to take the message on board in their normal daily life.  He emailed me the following:

Reading this email (See below) that arrived ‘spam’ style, I noticed it was different to the others and it struck a chord.  Until now I have never sent a ‘forward’ message on through Healthy Planet as they tend to have some sort of ‘send me emergency money’ or ‘you must pass it on for good luck’ mentioned in it, but there is no such equivalent here. Plus it has a couple of ‘hidden gems’.

Firstly, it reminds me of my 2 mothers – the one that brought me up; and the other one – the one that I trod on every day and who takes all my rubbish, literally (In case you still aren’t sure, that’s Mother Nature).  Granted one nags more than the other, but I try to show ‘All Due Respect’ to them both as best as I can.

The second hidden gem is not one that is commonly known or talked about – having peace of mind and an appreciation of non-material things are key to good mental health.  And good mental health brings with it better physical health and a greater respect for the planet, people, belongings and our other ‘stuff’.

Messages straight from the Founder (or his Mum) may be few and far between, but I will try and get them out to you Healthy Planeteers as often and as clearly as I can.

Take care.

 

Appreciation

 

This is a powerful message for our modern society – some parts of which may have lost its bearing & sense of direction, while some are able to contribute more to the world through these mod-cons, like seeing, adopting and connecting with plots of land through Google’s satellite images.

One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.

He passed the first interview; the director did the last interview.
The director discovered from the CV that the youth’s academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.

The director asked, “Did you obtain any scholarships in school?”

The youth answered “none”.

The director asked, “Was it your father who paid for your school fees?”
The youth answered, “My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked, “Where did your mother work?”
The youth answered, “My mother worked as laundry woman.
The director requested the youth to show his hands.
The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.

The director asked, “Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?”
The youth answered, “Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.

The director said, “I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother’s hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.

The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands.
His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the young man.

The youth cleaned his mother’s hands slowly. A tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother’s hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.

This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother’s hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mothers hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director’s office.

The Director noticed the tears in the youth’s eyes, asked: “Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?”

The youth answered, “I cleaned my mother’s hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes’

The Director asked, “Please tell me your feelings.”

The youth said:
1. I know now what appreciation is. Without my mother, there would not have been the successful me today.
2. By working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done.
3. I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationships.

The director said, “This is what I am looking for to be my manager.
I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company’s performance improved tremendously.

A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop “entitlement mentality” and would always put him self first. He would be ignorant of his parent’s efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of a person, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the children instead?*

You can let your children live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, you want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your children learn how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learn how to work with others to get things done.

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